Why We Love Jane

Why We Love Jane

Why We Love Jane

Words by Jasmin Pedretti

Oscar-winning actress Jane Fonda embodies the fight for justice and comedic brilliance. She’s intellectual, beautiful and uses her platform to make change using action over rhetoric. 

The most recent example is her protest against climate change. While some celebs tweet a pic of melting ice, Jane gets arrested every Friday for taking direct action with the group Oil Change International outside the United States Capitol in Washington, D.C. 

Jane has been drenched in controversy, but no buckets of derision can wash away her shine. She is all about celebrating women, so let’s return the favour. Here are five reasons to love Jane Fonda. 

ONE: Risked her life to protest the Vietnam war. Jane’s voice wasn’t loud enough, so she packed her bags and went to North Vietnam herself to meet the people her country was fighting. Although the problematic anti-aircraft- gun photo often overshadows her bravery, her message was clear: “If they told you the truth, of what your targets really are,” she said, “you wouldn’t fight, you wouldn’t kill. You were not born and brought up by your mothers to be killers. We must all try very, very hard to remain human beings.” Yas kween! 

TWO Was pro-gay rights when it was taboo. Jane didn’t just protest what was popular at the time. She believed in fighting for equality for all people. This interview from 79′ perfectly encapsulates her awesomeness and how she can articulate her opinion calmly in the face of someone trying to patronize the cause. 

THREE Walks the feminist walk, not just the talk. Jane writes a letter about her convoluted journey from advocating the theory but not “living it” internally, to becoming an embodied feminist. Her journey meant leaving her third husband, and “becoming the subject of her own life”. 

FOUR Fights for women’s rights. 

Earlier this year she pressed lawmakers to expand protections for women domestic workers and farm workers. She starred in the Vagina Monologues, cofounded Women’s Media Center and vocally advocated women’s reproductive rights and a movement to end domestic violence. She also made the movie 9 to 5 for working women everywhere, long before the Me Too movement. 

FIVE 82 years old but does whatever the heck she wants. The average 80-year-old lives a quiet, modest life. Not our Jane. She breaks all the “rules” that say older women need to cover up and dress their age. She goes all out in sequins and figure-flattering gowns. She isn’t shy about sex either, even revealing her top sex tips for young women. I mean if you’ve been at it for decades you’re bound to know a thing or two.

Talk about a good role model! Jane is an inspiration to make a practical difference, while also lighting up the screen with her wit and spunk. I can’t get enough. Jane, if you’re reading, between getting arrested and filming Hollywood blockbusters, if you have any spare time for a coffee, hit me up! 

 

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Interview With a Real Life Ghostbuster

Interview With a Real Life Ghostbuster

The Paramedic and his Quest for a Fear Less Life

by Olivia - Ponderings Radio

Interview With a Real Life Ghostbuster

What is paranormal activity?

It is the occurrence of inexplicable happenings. Bumps and knocks in the night, an eerie presence, a hovering vision…

The paranormal can be so spooky and quite unbelievable to many, horrifyingly real to those who have experienced the supernatural. How do we explain that which we do not understand? The unseen. To protect our sanity we try to deny it. The transparent, little girl floating down the hall is not a spirit, I imagined it. Must have been the salami I ate with the hot chilly. But here’s the thing, if enough people have these experiences, then surely it’s a subject worth pondering. Who better to ask than a Paranormal Investigator?

So many people are drawn to watching scary movies and like to go on ghost tours.

It seems people want to be scared! There are even those, the bravest of them all, that are determined to face these unseen happenings head-on. Perhaps if they walked in Bill’s shoes, they might not be quite so keen. His stories might just make them shiver and quiver. But then when the salami can’t explain it all, who you gonna call? In addition to this, how many spooky events happen that actually have straight forward answers to them? Not paranormal but in fact events caused by other explainable factors. This is where Bill comes in. 

Move over Bill Murray, Bill Tabone, is the founder of the Australian Paranormal Society. By day he is a dedicated every day human working for a local council, by night he makes contact with paranormal activity. 

Bill has explored the paranormal realm for the last 30-40 years, and is known all over the world. His passion lies in helping anyone experiencing the paranormal in their homes and educating the public through tours and lectures. 

Where is the most haunted place you’ve been?

Aradale Asylum up in Ararat. I’m lucky enough to run an investigation tour there once a month. There’s so much unstable energy there because the old ways of treating patients with psychological disorders weren’t always the kindest. There were a lot of people locked up that shouldn’t have been. Wives could be locked up for hanging out clothes on a Sunday or reading too much. Also, I believe places like that attract negative energy anyway. 

Has there ever been a moment where you’ve been scared for your life?

Oh, for sure. We’ve worked with a lot of dark entities. Not necessarily demonic, but unfortunately when a human passes, their personality doesn’t change. A person that’s nasty in life will be a nasty spirit too. There have been times where I’ve been attacked or seen people attacked from things you can’t see. I’ve had to pull people out of buildings because they’ve been hurt or made ill.

Have you ever been hurt?

I’ve been scratched and bitten, pushed; I’ve had things thrown at me. We do what we call ‘grounding and protections’, spiritual protections to protect our energy. However, one time, when there was a few of us, some were less experienced. So by protecting them, I left myself open and copped some negative energy. I was ill for 4-5 days. 

Not your average job! What do you love about it?

I say there are no experts in the field because we know so very little about the paranormal. We’re out there exploring things that you can’t see, and trying to work out ways to connect with the other side. I find it intriguing that we can have these experiences. To me, it’s just fascinating to be able to make this contact.

Not all our cases are dark, although those involved, the clients, are usually fearful but it has more to do with fearing the unknown that what’s actually there. Some cases are very positive, especially when we find leave peace for the spirit or spirits involved and also for the living. 

Many times we need to help spirits that haven’t crossed over or moved on, sometimes they are stuck, lost or confused, sometimes just stubborn, among other reasons and didn’t cross when their time came. This is very rewarding and positive work and those in spirit are usually very happy to have help. 

One example is a little girl who was stuck in an old miners cottage, I felt her come and hold my hand because apparently I looked like her dad with my beard and she felt safe, it was a gentle little girls hand holding mine but it was definitely there and was extremely cold. We were ecstatic to help her cross over.

Another is the time we helped an old lady who was stuck in her old house, we actually heard her cross and it was beautiful. We believe the sound we heard was a portal opening, the sound it made was beautiful, and when the sound stops the old lady had gone. We all get shown gratitude for helping in different ways, for example I usually feel my cheek being gently stroked right at the time they are crossing, but others experiences different things like a warm glow over their body of any number of other signs. 

Why do you think some people can see or sense ghosts, while others can’t?

I believe everyone can see to begin with. I can’t, but my partner is a very strong medium. As children, people will say “you’re talking to an imaginary friend, don’t be so stupid”. Kids shut down, so when they become adults, they shut off. I think it depends on how children are treated when it first starts.

When there is paranormal activity, what are the leading scientific indicators that there is activity going on?

Frequency and temperature are part of it. Cold spots, for example, are a sign that there’s a spirit trying to manifest, taking energy from the air. Then again, it could just be an open window. We’ll look at the temperature and work out why the temperature dropped. Is there any black noise, what are the EMF levels (Electromagnetic field), is there anything that might be causing these events that can be explained simply. Then once we’ve eliminated them, if there’s anything else that’s unusual, we can run the investigation. A variety of still and video cameras. These work in the normal light spectrum and some work in infrared, Ultraviolet, multi spectrum and full spectrum ranges. Thermal cameras, and motion sensors, there’s lots of unusual gadgets!

 

Do you believe humans transmit frequency, so when there is high emotion in the house, there can be disturbances generated?

Oh, 100%. Human emotions create what we call the residual haunting, where the emotion is caught up in the environment and replays sometimes. A classic example is a lady in a castle in England on the 3rd of July every year. Why? She’s doing the same thing. So, she’s not actually a spirit. She’s energy trapped in that environment, in the walls, in the rock. There’s a whole theory behind that called ‘stone tape theory’, but that’s another story. When the environment and time are right, the 3rd of July for example, then you get emotion playing back, so you’ll see the scene that created the emotion. 

What would you say to someone who doesn’t believe in the paranormal?

I never try and push my beliefs onto anyone else. On my investigations, if someone is negative, I’ll pull them aside and ask them to have an open mind. We used to run a public investigation at the Melbourne Royal Hotel. The husbands were bored, but the wives were really into it. We have machines, like modified radios, that allow the spirits to come through, and you can hear their voices. I pulled out the spirit box and just asked to hear someone’s name. It said one of the husband’s first and last name. His mouth fell open. He shook my hand afterwards and just said I’d changed his mind.

If you would like to dive deeper into the Australian Paranormal Society or buy tickets to one of their events, visit their facebook page where they have close to 96, 000 followers.  

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Pondering with Kate Forsyth

Pondering with Kate Forsyth

Pondering with Kate Forsyth

by Ponderings Radio

Pondering with Kate Forsyth

Internationally bestselling and award-winning author of more than thirty books, Kate Forsyth ponders with us about her childhood, lifelong love of fairy-tales and her new book The Blue Rose.

Cubby House or Tree House?

Treehouse!

Biggest literary inspiration? 

Probably the Bronte sisters.

Favorite book?

On my website, I have a list of the 50 books that changed me. I’ve chosen ten books for each decade of my life, that have most inspired me. My favorite childhood book would be The Lion the Witch and the Wardrobe. 

How did that book shape you?

It made me long for magical worlds; it chimed very much with the child that I was. Very imaginative and day-dreamy. I still read it every few years.

I read that when you were in hospital as a child, stories were a form of escapism, how does it feel knowing that your books provide that kind of refuge to more than a million others?

It’s part of the magic of stories. A large part of my motivation for writing stories is the idea of giving this gift to people who are in need. 

Creating something out of our mind and spirit, and the enormous challenges that come with writing long-form fiction in that time dominates you for years. So, the great reward is knowing that we’ve moved and helped others. 

You wrote your first novel at age seven, did you always know you would be a writer?

Oh, yes, always. I was writing stories from the time I could hold a pencil, so I was writing poems by the age of four and five. It’s always been a burning ambition; a vocation, rather than a job.

What is it about fairy-tales that captivate you? 

When I was a little girl, I was quite sick. My tear ducts had been destroyed by a savage attack by a dog when I was a baby. I spent a lot of time in the hospital. I’d be rushed there in the middle of the night, and my mother had to leave me there. It was very frightening and lonely. I was hooked up to all these machines, and they’d bring up the sides of the bed, so it’s like you’re in a little prison. My mother gave me Grimm fairy-tales to read. So even though my body was imprisoned, both literally and metaphorically, when I opened the pages of that book, I could escape into the gateway of fairy-tales. At the time, I didn’t know why they meant so much to me. I just knew that they enchanted me. But as an adult, interrogating my enchantment with these old tales, what I came to realize is that they offer hope.

What is your favorite fairy-tale?

I don’t like to answer that question because my relationship with fairy-tales is far more profound than having a favorite. But Rapunzel is the tale that speaks to me most powerfully because it was about a girl that was in prison just like I was. My tower was an illness and a hospital bed. It wasn’t a real tower, but the effects on me were the same. I was constrained; I was shackled. I was held, impotent and powerless. In the story of Rapunzel, the prince is flung down from a tower height, and he’s blinded, so he cannot see. Rapunzel finds him, and she weeps, and her tears fall upon his eyes, and he’s healed. Which makes Rapunzel an extraordinarily, powerful agent of healing and redemption. Well, I was in the hospital because of my inability to control my tears. And so, without a tear duct, my eye wept constantly. So, I was constantly sick, in pain, and made ill by my own tears. Rapunzel gave me hope that I would escape my tower one day, and I would be healed one day. And that’s a powerful message to a sick and frightened little girl. Fairy tales carry messages of hope that you can change your world. 

Also, Sleeping Beauty because it’s the story of a young woman woken from a form of death. As a child, I awoke from a six or seven-week coma, which is not something that many people can say.

Have any of your stories characters been autobiographical? 

Frederic Fellini, a famous Italian film-maker, says all art is autobiographical. You could also argue that no art is auto-biographical because what happens is a creative artist takes their own life. They transform it in the crucible of the imagination, into something very different, and so all art arises out of us but is transformed into something else.

You recently published ‘The Blue Rose’, set during the French Revolution, what inspired the premise of the book?

I’ve wanted to write a book set in the French Revolution since I was a teenager. There’s something poignant about love during a time of such bloody turmoil and violence. Also, roses are my favorite flower. Reading about their symbology, I discovered that in 1792 a fabled, blood-red rose was smuggled out of China and brought to Europe, and it was the ancestor of all the blood-red roses that we have today. 1792 was right at the beginning of the French revolution. I was fascinated by the fact that this rose was smuggled out of China by an Englishman but was hybridized in France, even though England and France were at war with each other and China, at this time, was closed to the western world. So, my two interests, France during the French revolution and the history and meaning of the rose, struck sparks off each other. And that’s how things work for me. I have an idea, but I need another idea that somehow has a charge of electricity between them. It’s a true, old-fashioned love story. I felt like the world needed a grand romance at the moment.

I mean, all the best romances have arisen from the darkest times, right?

I think so. One of the things I was grappling with is this idea that romance, which foregrounds and long-sustains human happiness should be something to aspire to. It has become something to be sneered at. To long for love is seen somehow as being weak, childish and unsophisticated. I think that the longing for love is makes us human. And I do believe in its redemptive power. I made the deliberate decision to write a book about the longing for love; the need to fight, work and suffer for it. Not this easy kind of idea that love can come and go.

Is there anything you can tell me about the book you just finished?

Yes, so I’m the direct descendant of the woman who wrote the first children’s book published in Australia. Her name was Charlotte Waring, so the book I’ve just finished writing with my sister is a combined biography of our ancestor with a memoir. A memoir of our search for the truth. Because we were brought up on all these old stories, you never knew if they were real. It’s a memoir of what it’s like to grow up in a writing family. It’s the most astonishing story of grief and struggle and violence, and triumph over absolutely overwhelming odds. My sister and I have been working on this book all year. It’s to be published in late 2021, which is the 188th anniversary of my great-great-great-great grandmother’s books publication.

 

My chat with Kate left me spellbound. Her way with words and passion for history, love and magic left me inspired and desperate to read all her books. 

You can find ‘The Blue Rose’ in most bookstores or on Amazon.

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Talking Transgender Truth and Trials with Melissa Griffiths

Talking Transgender Truth and Trials with Melissa Griffiths

Talking Transgender Truth and Trials with Melissa Griffiths

Words by Jasmin Pedretti

We sit down with Melissa Griffiths, transgender authority and advocate, to talk about her personal experience as a transgender person and her role in raising awareness and inclusivity in the workplace.

Talking Transgender Truth and Trials with Melissa Griffiths

by Ponderings Radio

What is your favorite thing about being a woman? 

Being a woman is who I am. My favorite thing about being a woman is that I can be myself. It’s pretty simple.

 In The Guardian, you said, “I began to believe that being treated like this is part of being a woman when it is not and should never be.” How were you treated differently as a woman? 

There’s a lack of respect. People think they can make fun of you and get away with it. They think, “she won’t mind, she’s a good sport”.

What was the most unusual part of transitioning? 

Probably some of the questions and funny looks I got. That’s probably the hardest part. I’ve been asked to access the bar through the back door instead of from the front. Like I’m an embarrassment. I get yelled at on the street.

How does this societal stigma affect you?

It’s quite hard. You’re quite vulnerable, being part of a minority group. I have moments where I need to take time out to cry. The pain I go through makes me stronger. I know that if I keep pushing on like I have been for the past three years, that it will create change and hopefully in 10 years we won’t be having these sorts of conversations.

You teach businesses about how to be inclusive and supportive of transgender people transitioning in their workplace. This is so important for social acceptance – has this been positive, negative, easy or difficult? 

It’s not an easy thing to do. We speak to management about the challenges they might face while someone transitions in the workplace and some of the issues I encountered. I think sharing these stories is a powerful way to create change as well. Also, giving people the space to ask questions, for example, what pronouns to use when referring to someone non-binary.

What has been the most inspiring success so far? 

I spoke at RMIT this year for International Women’s Day and did a TEDx talk. I can’t believe I got through it. They have the smallest stage ever, and I managed to remember my speech and get my jokes in. For me, speaking is a journey. One YouTube video I love is by Admiral Raven from 2014, where he talks about being a sugar cookie. He says, no matter how well you prepare, sometimes you’ll fail. He calls it ‘just get over being a sugar cookie’. I love it.

What is the best part of your job?

Helping people behind the scenes. When I wrote about my experience getting through anxiety and depression this year, well most of it, people commented on Facebook that they had experienced it too, and it helps to make those human connections.

Melissa is a Global Goodwill Ambassador and was a Finalist of the 2019 AUS LGBTI Awards, yet she was so humble, you wouldn’t know this.

As we ponder with Melissa, we were reminded of people who are brave and the importance of kindness. In addition to a conversation about inclusivity, it is about a person forging through and advocating for others, paving a way in a changing world. For tips for employers for a transgender person transitioning in your workplace and to find out more about Melissa you can visit http://www.melissagriffiths.com.au and her podcast https://melissacgriffiths.podbean.com

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